My perfect guy is not that perfect after all

Last weekend I witnessed how John is when irritated. It was a shocker to me as I don't usually see him that way. For the past months, I always witness him being so cheerful and so positive. Does seeing his other side turned me off? No! Nobody's perfect. There will be times we get irritated, … Continue reading My perfect guy is not that perfect after all


The big reveal

Last weekend my family along with John and my two aunts went to Baguio. It was a quick well spent weekend. I brought John there as I remembered him saying that he wants to go to a high place in the Philippines. John being an American; I thought of Baguio as it is somehow related … Continue reading The big reveal

Dear John

Funny how when you search for things, you don't find them; and when you stopped searching, you would suddenly bump into them. Dear John, when I met you I was totally unsteady. I came from a rocky situation and a very toxic relationship--the worst I ever had. I was hurt and really burned. We matched … Continue reading Dear John

What is it like to be in a relationship with someone who’s been burned a lot of times

One thing about me is that I trust people too easily. Unlike others whose trust you need to earn first. For me, it is the other way around. I will put my whole trust in you right away. And once you break it, I might be able to forgive you but I will never forget … Continue reading What is it like to be in a relationship with someone who’s been burned a lot of times

Meet the Castillo’s

They say Family is a link to the past and a bridge to the future. It may not be evident but I value my family as much as I value the other things that matter to me. John and I have been seeing each other for almost 4 months already. In few days, we will … Continue reading Meet the Castillo’s

Rainbow after Storm

It is not a secret that I've been openly dating since I became single again. Honestly, I dated right away after I broke up with my ex. For some, I think they would judge me for that (some might already have). I don't believe in 3 months rule or that there is a certain timing … Continue reading Rainbow after Storm

Dankeschön 🇩🇪🇵🇭

Serendipity. That is the best term to coin it, I think.  Lately, I started posting pictures of sceneries, buildings, and places I find amusing. To get more likes and for more people to see my posts, I put hashtags at times. Then there is #Philippines. One lazy afternoon as I was browsing ig pictures with … Continue reading Dankeschön 🇩🇪🇵🇭